MR Chivalry

I was being nosy yesterday  like I always am on Facebook and Twitter and I came across a lot of post from women asking ” where are the good men” and “men suck” Etc……

Which got my ass thinking……? What happened to the chivalry men?? It’s like the fell off the face of the earth.. So I started thinking about all the conversations I have had in the past with friends and acquaintances. About men cheating, lying, and there lack of ability to care what there women are feeling………..A man taking you to a dinner and a movie has become almost extinct…

Now a day’s men will invite multiple girls that they are dating/screwing to the same social events and act like its normal. Or go on Twitter/ Facebook and post comments on how they would love to smash another chick..Meanwhile they are dating someone seriously knowing that she and her friends can see everything he posts. 98% of our generation of men do not know what it means to RESPECT a women……

BUT are men really to blame?????

I ask this only because our generation of women have adapted to the way men treat them. Some of us are just as emotionally detached as men are. But a lot of women just try to act like they are. The problem with this is that a lot of you women try to play the” COOL GIRL ROLE” ..Like nothing bothers you..You try to act like it doesn’t bother you when he has multiple partners, or when he gets comments on Twitter/Facebook from girls that make it very well known that she is messing with him…. You girls play the role of the side chick, booty call, and the girl who has been dating a guy for months but does not have the title…For what?? So he can think you don’t give a shit?? Or so he can see how down to earth and cool you are because you don’t stress him???

News Flash Ladies!!!!

Every woman is doing the exact same thing you are… You are not the only “COOL GIRL” .. Every girl is the “COOL GIRL”… A man is not going to “wife” you if he can get 20 other girls just like you… A man is only going to do to you what you let him do… If you show him that you have respect for yourself, that you are not a groupie and that you will not be disrespected in any way.. He will see that you are not the average chick. And that is what he will want to wife up.. You women need to stop trying to act like its cool when men do the things they do… Because in all reality 70% of it is your fault….

The question you women should be asking is not where’s MR Chivalry???

The question you should be asking is how am I presenting myself to others, for the man to show me MR Chivalry?????